CODA

Is this the end of my naughty bits ? Maybe.

As even the most casual reader may have guessed, J.NYC has been climbing into a serious lead for months and eventually - after a talk where I demanded nonexclusivity and he easily agreed - I realized I didn't want to sleep with anyone else. Imagine that - having that sexual urge turned off except for with this one person. (Ironically, group sex still turns me on and I'm masturbating more than ever, but that's another post.) A change in character this drastic practically screams for another, equally drastic change. And so I committed and now I've got this wonderful boyfriend who has yet to spank or choke me, but is cultivating a taste for the anime I love the most. Currently, I'm ripping the lastest disc he burned me onto my computer; its got an assortment of music he's compiled from other peoples' computers and two hentai films he thinks I'll like - this is the lemur of my dreams.

The whole point to my blog, my dating, my men (and the couple of women) was that I was refusing to settle. And that's my message - don't settle. If you need to be licked out before intercourse, don't date someone who won't do that. If you've got a smoking fetish and your boyfriend wants to quit, dump him. If you want to be sodomized, spanked and spooged on a couple times a week, demand it aright. Because who knows - you could meet someone who amuses you both in and out of the bedroom, and isn't that something worth waiting for ?